Quote Originally Posted by m 'n c View Post
... cglaura- as far as your "morals" question goes if that is the only time you can go I don't see anything wrong with wearing the pin that one day for her b-day meal. I probably wouldn't wear it the whole trip and tell ever ADR but I don't see anything wrong with it that one day. Now over on the DIS you will probably get another opinion...
That's what I was thinking too. However, I was looking at a page w/ all the buttons you could get, B-day, Anniversary, etc., and she walked by and said, "You're not going to make me wear that are you?!?" so, I guess that solves my problem

I think I will just arrange for a cake or something at the Garden Grille so I can surprise her with something. This whole trip was supposed to be a surprise only to be told a few days before we leave, but I wound up telling her to defray the aftermath of a really bad weekend this summer, to give her something to look forward to. Thanks for the advice, and I've learned my lesson on what to post over there