JENVANCE - Still here???

[fourfoxesinpa]

Just wondering how you're doing and if there's any progress.

I have an August baby and know how you are feeling.

[jenvance]

Still here. Going to the dr today. I am super nervous.

[Hedy]

Just wondering how you're doing and if there's any progress.

I have an August baby and know how you are feeling.

Porr Jen, her ticker is smarting off at her everytime she posts "I should be here now!"

[jenvance]

Porr Jen, her ticker is smarting off at her everytime she posts "I should be here now!"

LOL:rotfl::rotfl:That cracked me up. Thanks for the laugh!!!

[askomsky]

Good luck! I had my membranes stripped twice and I really didn't feel a thing, but nor did it do any good! DD 5.5 is a Sept baby, now that was tough!! lol Knowing I still had a month left and the August heat... UGH!

[Magical JenK]

I know, I've been watching your ticker too & I'm like, well I hope that baby knows to come out in 2 days...1 day...now....wonder what it will say tomorrow?! :0)

[linanglab]

Today is a good day! Today is Bethany's birthday (8!). I went into labor the evening after they stripped my membranes with my 2nd!

We will be thinking of you!

[DisneyMa]

I was induced all three times. Just popped my water. No pit, no drugs. I could make a living getting pregnant and having babies!:rotfl: I don't think DH would like it, but think of all that extra Disney money!:p

That little one will come out soon. Good luck today at your apt.

[Sunni]

Good luck at your appointment today.
Youu bundle of joy will be here soon to say hello.

I love that ticker! :rotfl:

[LuvMyBoys]

Good luck jenvance!! :)

I remember how anxious I was at those last few appointments, waiting to hear that it should be soon, how dilated I was, etc. :confused:

I hope it is soon!! :angel:

[Blessing and Miracle]

Waiting to hear the news. Just make love to hubby tonight and I garauntee you it wouldn't be long. :D

[DisneyMa]

Waiting to hear the news. Just make love to hubby tonight and I garauntee you it wouldn't be long. :D

:D Couldn't hurt:love:

[~Kathie]

Good luck today. Sometimes all the baby needs is a little prodding (Doctor or DH whatever works) and out they come. :)

[arob414]

Good luck!

[jenvance]

I posted this on the other thread but I will post it here too. Anyway here are the results to my dr appointment, which unfortunately did not go as planned. They did not strip my membranes because my cervix is still very thick and no dialation. So unless the baby goes naturally by monday, I will be going into the hospital monday morning at 8 am, they will be giving me something similair to a suppository but in the other end. This is supposed to help soften the cervix and stuff, but it takes 10 to 12 hours to work. Then they will induce with pitocin and i should have my baby by Tuesday morning. Thanks for all the well wishes!

[mia214jia]

What about a warm bath? A belly massage?
I know you are miserable and It will make you feel better as well.
Thought is if you are feeling better then baby may wake up and decide to get busy.

[jenvance]

I feel fine! In fact we went o the park today and later we have cheerleading, lol, well dd has cheerleading. I just want to get the baby out, I can't wait to meet her.

[arob414]

In my world (OB), nothing seems to make moms go into labor as fast as L&D scheduling us "heavy". We have a saying in the Nsy, if they schedule one, two will come, etc. Our busiest days seem to be the days they schedule pts to be induced or sectioned, or both. Then, we fill up. We move Wed., I am sure we will be swamped with laboring pts, new moms and babies. Murphy's law.

[lanny76]

You know, I was wondering why drs think they have to induce so quickly after a due date?! Babies can be a week or so past the due date and it's not a problem for the baby - I mean, the mom may be uncomfortable, yes! But I have heard that induced labors are not very easy (mine haven't been induced and have been intense, so I wouldn't want to know how intense a pitocin labor could be!)
Really, though, in most cases the baby will decide to come naturally, if a little late, without the necessity for induction. I guess drs just like to be doing something! -- Mine insists on an IV, just in case there's a problem, but I don't think it's necessary if there are no signs of a problem, but guess who thinks he's more right?!!:rolleyes: I don't want to be made to feel like a patient when I'm just doing a perfectly natural thing like having a baby - but when you go to a hospital, I guess that's how it is. My rant for the day - sorry.:blush:
Anyway, Jen, I'm glad you feel fine today! But here's hoping you start feeling some contractions, too!

[arob414]

You know, I was wondering why drs think they have to induce so quickly after a due date?! Babies can be a week or so past the due date and it's not a problem for the baby - I mean, the mom may be uncomfortable, yes! But I have heard that induced labors are not very easy (mine haven't been induced and have been intense, so I wouldn't want to know how intense a pitocin labor could be!)


Most of our moms who are induced, have been pushing the doc for the induction. We are even seeing moms pushing for sections...without a reason, other than that is what they want. And, I am talking about first time moms. There is a whole discussion, in my world, concerning the pros and cons. What a change, people used to complain that we did too many sections. And, we are forever getting the 32-26 wk mom who is "tired" of being pg. As a NICU nurse, those moms have no idea how tired they will get if they end up with a baby in NICU. They always know "someone" who had a baby at 36 wks that was fine. It happens, but we call them late preterms and they can have a whole set of problems all their own.

[jenvance]

You know, I was wondering why drs think they have to induce so quickly after a due date?! Babies can be a week or so past the due date and it's not a problem for the baby - I mean, the mom may be uncomfortable, yes! But I have heard that induced labors are not very easy (mine haven't been induced and have been intense, so I wouldn't want to know how intense a pitocin labor could be!)
Really, though, in most cases the baby will decide to come naturally, if a little late, without the necessity for induction. I guess drs just like to be doing something! -- Mine insists on an IV, just in case there's a problem, but I don't think it's necessary if there are no signs of a problem, but guess who thinks he's more right?!!:rolleyes: I don't want to be made to feel like a patient when I'm just doing a perfectly natural thing like having a baby - but when you go to a hospital, I guess that's how it is. My rant for the day - sorry.:blush:
Anyway, Jen, I'm glad you feel fine today! But here's hoping you start feeling some contractions, too!


In my case there is a reason, I guess. My son was 12 days late and he was very large and the doctor broke my water while I was in labor at the hospital and (sorry if this is TMI) before he was born he went to the bathroom in my uterus, # 2. Apparently the meconium can be very dangerous for babies and I guess they don't want it to happen again. I did not say I wanted to be induced, but this doctor said they don't like people going past 41 weeks because the baby is just gaining weight. Cheerleading is over and I still feel fine, lol, she is just really comfy in there. :cooldance:

[jenvance]

Most of our moms who are induced, have been pushing the doc for the induction. We are even seeing moms pushing for sections...without a reason, other than that is what they want. And, I am talking about first time moms. There is a whole discussion, in my world, concerning the pros and cons. What a change, people used to complain that we did too many sections. And, we are forever getting the 32-26 wk mom who is "tired" of being pg. As a NICU nurse, those moms have no idea how tired they will get if they end up with a baby in NICU. They always know "someone" who had a baby at 36 wks that was fine. It happens, but we call them late preterms and they can have a whole set of problems all their own.

I see that this is happening more and more often. I would have never thought to ask to be induced before my actual due date, for what reason?? But the pregnancy forum that I go to to read about the baby's development, all the women just keep complaining, and I mean from 30 weeks and on that they wanted their baby out. Being this pregnant is not supposed to be comfortable, lol. But its a small price to pay for a healthy baby.

[arob414]

In my case there is a reason, I guess. My son was 12 days late and he was very large and the doctor broke my water while I was in labor at the hospital and (sorry if this is TMI) before he was born he went to the bathroom in my uterus, # 2. Apparently the meconium can be very dangerous for babies and I guess they don't want it to happen again.

As a NICU nurse, I wanted to be induced if I went past 40 wks. (That after saying the above) As a young high schooler, one of my teachers, 40 yrs old, lost her only child, she was 2 wks late. That hit me hard and I have never forgotten it. Little did I know I would end up as a NICU nurse. And, delivering my first at 40. I was scheduled for an induction but my water broke so I went earlier.

Meconium is a scarey thing. That and group B strept are 2 of the scariest things for us in the Nsy. We have gotten really good at taking care of preemies and have learned alot about the other two but we have a healthy respect for what the damage they can do.

And, yeah, some babies just don't need to grow bigger or they can get their shoulder hung.

Okay, after all the scarey talk...can't wait to hear from you and see the pictures. We have WiFi in our hospital. Do ya'll and if you do, in your spare time can you upload a picture for us. :sunshine:

[jenvance]

The meconium was very scary, luckily my son is just fine. He was big, but he is just fine now. My pediatrician says that he was left to long and that was why that happened. I am just thankful there were no side effects from the meconium.

Unfortunately our hospital does not have wifi, so you all have to wait until I get home to see pictures, but I will definitely post some as soon as possible.

[askomsky]

Yeah I can't understand wanting to have a section just because or inducing early. My OB induced me with the 1st two early bc they were already measuring big. I'm 5'8 and i'm small everyone else in my immediate family is over 6 foot. He also wouldn't have induced me, but I was already dialited and thinned out. He would rather deliver a slightly smaller baby a week early then a larger baby and possible section/suction/forceps a week later. I would have to agree. All of my baby's were healthy weights and born 39.5 wks, 38.5 weeks and 38 wks.

[lanny76]

I don't mean to say that I think there's never a good reason for induction, and it seems like there's a good enough reason in your case, jen.
I also understand the thing about women wanting induction, sort of the way there are also increased elective c-sections. What I fail to relate to is just why women want these things! I mean, from what I have heard/read, an induced labor can be much stronger, and there's the recovery from surgery with the c-section. I'd rather have my labor happen on its own, and happen naturally!
I know not every dr. is just jumping the gun, too - but trying to make a reasonable and right decision. It's just that it seems birth is somewhat more medicalized than it needs to be, to me.
I'm not a flaming radical either, who thinks that hospital births are terrible, and intervention is never needed. I actually prefer to have my babies in the hospital, in the event there IS an issue, but I still want it to be as natural and un-medicalized as possible.
I also think that there is something with my body that hasn't let me go too long or grow too big a baby- because I am rather small, barely 5'1 - and probably would have a harder time with a big baby. No need for me to be induced, when I go 2 weeks early! -- I have actually wondered if with some women the placenta starts giving up sooner than in others, and maybe that's why I have had my babies earlier, I don't know.

[disney_girl]

Seems like quite a few people I know have been/ are being induced on their due dates for various reasons. With my first, my water broke 2 months early and by the time we got to the hospital I was dilated to a 5. He was breach, so I had an emergency c-section. The NICU staff was WONDERFUL, but it is not something I would want anyone to HAVE to experience. It was a very long and hard 2 1/2 weeks!

With the second one, I had the choice of delivery and chose a repeat c-section. Although my c/s surgeries were fairly easy recovery wise, it isn't something I would just chose with my first or without reason. Since my first was so early, we scheduled my repeat c/s for 3 weeks prior to my due date. But I went into hard labor the day before surgery and was already dilated to a 6 by the time we got there...so another emergency c/s was in the plan.

I guess the one thing about my c-sections is that they were over within an hour...then the recovery!

[askomsky]

I don't mean to say that I think there's never a good reason for induction, and it seems like there's a good enough reason in your case, jen.
I also understand the thing about women wanting induction, sort of the way there are also increased elective c-sections. What I fail to relate to is just why women want these things! I mean, from what I have heard/read, an induced labor can be much stronger, and there's the recovery from surgery with the c-section. I'd rather have my labor happen on its own, and happen naturally!
I know not every dr. is just jumping the gun, too - but trying to make a reasonable and right decision. It's just that it seems birth is somewhat more medicalized than it needs to be, to me.
I'm not a flaming radical either, who thinks that hospital births are terrible, and intervention is never needed. I actually prefer to have my babies in the hospital, in the event there IS an issue, but I still want it to be as natural and un-medicalized as possible.
I also think that there is something with my body that hasn't let me go too long or grow too big a baby- because I am rather small, barely 5'1 - and probably would have a harder time with a big baby. No need for me to be induced, when I go 2 weeks early! -- I have actually wondered if with some women the placenta starts giving up sooner than in others, and maybe that's why I have had my babies earlier, I don't know.

Oh I agree with you, I can't understand why some would choose if there were no "real" reason why. I heard of one who wanted to schedule a section (with her first) bc of the convience of when they wanted to plan their vacation etc. To each his own, there are always valid reasons.

[jnorth1007]

I have to say that there are women who just aren't capable of vaginal births. I was 2 weeks late for my oldest child and not a bit dialated or softened. The doctor decided to induce my labor and I can promise you that I wish to God he had just done a C-section. I begged for it then and I still wish he would have. Instead he induced. 40 hours later and still not a bit dialated or softened and they decided I needed a C-section. The pain I went through for 40 hours was useless. My daughter was born 9lbs 4oz. My second and third births went until the week of my due date each time and never once did my cervix ever show any signs that I was even pregnant. I had scheduled sections for both of them. My 2nd child was 9lbs 11oz and had an 18in head. I was in and out of the hospital the whole pregnancy because she was so big and her head was near my ribs and heart and I kept passing out when she would roll over. Once again my doctor would not do the c-section early. Instead he made me wear a heart monitor that just made the claustrophobic feelings even worse. While doing the section I had two doctors laying on my chest trying to push her out and they had to use tongs and a vaccum ON A SECTION to get her out. My last was 8lbs 13oz and the pregnancy and section was easy. I wish to God I had one of those doctors who had just scheduled because I wanted him to or because he wanted to. Instead I had one who was overly cautious and let them get too big. Induction early and planned c-sections are not really all bad. Poor Grace had to wear a gown from the peds unit because she was too big for the gowns in the nursery and it was peach and she looked like a gnome!

[arob414]

Moms who are requesting elective sections (no medical reason) are doing so to avoid the pain of labor and for the convenience of scheduling. Janet, from what you have said, it sounds like you did need yours. I am in the Nsy and rarely work in L&D, but I think most docs like to give moms a trial of labor because overall there are less risks to a baby who goes thru labor and delivers vaginally. Hormones are realized, during labor, that are good for the baby's lungs, plus they get the squeeze. But, ultimately, whatever is best for mom and baby is the best thing. And, all moms are different. We have tiny moms who push out 10 pounders and amazon moms who end up needing a section for a 5 pounder. Besides the mom being able to push out the baby, the baby also has to be able to tolerate the labor and delivery. Most can, but others can't. At our hospital, due to the risk of uterine rupture, we have pretty much stopped VBAC's (vag delivery after a section) and that is not considered elective, either.

[faithhope]

I'm thinking of you and your little one... thanks for the updates...

My own story to add... I have two girls...and they came in very different ways... I think it had more to do with their personalities than me...

My first at two weeks overdue had to be induced... We had no medical problems... but I really wanted to meet the baby to I elected for a C-Section, after trying petocin (sp) for 16+ hours with no progress. She was 8lbs, 6oz which I thought was big considering I'm a petite 5'2"

My second came 4 days after her due date. Totally naturally... Hospital Birth... all the nurses came to watch...said it had been a long time since they had seen a natural birth...and a couple wanted to see how the birthing bar was set up... My second was born with merconium next to her... luckily none in her. She was over 9 pounds and it was an easy birth. I only needed a few stitches, and didn't have any swelling. They kept us at the hospital an extra day because they were worried about her large size ?!?!?

When my kids see newborn babies they always ask was I that tiny?? I always laugh and say nope...you were never that tiny...

I myself was the premie that had to come out 2 months early at 2 pounds... My mother and father were at a sumo wrestling match when her water broke... my father wanted to stay and watch the rest of the match... but my mother got him to take her to the hospital somehow :rotfl:

I look forward to reading your birth story :clap:

[bartleby1]

Any signs of progession this morning Jen? I'm leaving for our two day drive to disney at 4 am tomorrow so I wont' be able to check in to see your progress, but I'll be thinking of you! I'll blow some magic labor pixie dust your way! :)

At least now there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I remember those end of pregnancy feelings of mixed emotions and being tired of being pregnant all too well. Good luck on Monday (or sooner if it should happen)!

[missymouse]

I have three children all induced. DD was a week past due date and nothing was going on as far as the cervix so on due date Dr. said if you haven't gone into labor we will induce a week from today. They gave me pitocin and managed to piggyback contractions which wasn't fun. The contraction would heighten, come part way back down, and go up again from there they started the pitocin at 10 am and she was born at 11 pm at 8 lbs. 3 oz. Then they wouldn't let me have the epidural until 6 pm. After the fact the nurse told me that because the contractions were piggybacked I was actually not able to dilate until after the epidural was in place. Basically fighting nature.

Second child went into labor a month early. They stopped the contractions and sent me home on strict bed rest for 3 weeks. Then induced what they thought was a week early. He was 10 lbs,10 oz. and I had a triple episiotomy to deliver him. None of that stuff on his skin, eczema over 90% of his body and the placenta and umbilical cord were a dull gray (with DD my husband said the umbilical cord was a brilliant blueish color) I am convinced with 100% of my being that the due date they gave me was off and he was 3 weeks overdue.

Third child we induced a week early no problems and he was exactly 7 lbs.

[jenvance]

Its so neat listening to everyone's stories. I love it. And Thanks for all the well wishes. Still no signs of labor, but it will come. The whole inducing thing is hard, I went through it with dd, my water broke and I was actually having contractions, went to the hospital but nothing was happening, After being in the hospital for fourteen hours with hard contractions that were not doing enything and no epidural, they decided to give me pitocin to help me along. DD was born 2 and a half hours later. DS's delivery was much easier. By the time I got to the hospital I was already 8 cm dialated and he was born in about an hour and a half.

[luvdisney00]

Good Luck Jen,

As hard as those last weeks are, I will always remember the joy of anticipation to meet my new child. There is nothing in the world like the first moment that you lay eyes on that little miracle.

Can't wait to hear all about it!!

[llgray16]

Jen - its seems as if you have a true diva on your hands there! No true princess arrives anything but fashionably late to the party :rotfl:

I hope you have a smooth and easy labor and delivery!

[LuvMyBoys]

Jen - Hope all is going well with you and baby! :) Can't wait for an update!! :sunshine:

[mia214jia]

Here's hoping all is well with you and DD. I hope she is not feeling too much pain.